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As stressful as the prospect of securing a date can be, carrying out the planning a first date can be just as terrifying. From figuring out how to act to nailing what to wear, every bit of the process can feel like it needs to be calculated to perfection. Here are a few tips of what not to do on your date.

  1. Do not be late

Do all the necessary preparations ahead of time. I suggest that a night before the big day, choose your outfit already. So, that you won’t hurry dressing up for your date. You don’t want your partner to see you wearing the wrong pair of earrings. Make sure that when your guy knocks on your door, you are all set. Cramming is one disaster risk factor. So, be careful not to cram. Having your date stand for 10 minutes on your day will not create a nice impression.

  1. Do not narrate break-up history on your date.

For God’s sake don’t do this. You are supposed to have fun and not sour grape over your most recent break-up. And besides, past is past, bury them all on the ground and start anew. Your date is supposed to be a new prospect, not a shock absorber. Your friends have that role already. Instead of dwelling in the past, know this new guy in front of you more. Ask him about his stuff like – what he does, his kind of sports, hobbies, interests and more until such time you arrive at your common interest. Little do you know, that you have been talking for three hours straight and enjoying every minute of it.

  1. Do not compare

The man in front of you is totally a different individual. It will be unfair to pattern him to your previous guy or make a note of comparison. What you should do is discover this new person in front of you and forget the past guy even his name if you wish to. Comparison as your standards will not put you anywhere. It will just make your date a disaster. And please, do not dare verbalize your notes of comparison with your date.

  1. Do not be silly.

The worst thing you can be is looking silly. Do not talk things as if you’re a pro if in reality you are clueless. You would end up saying the wrong things that will confuse your date a lot. Look smart. If you happen to be unaware of what he’s saying about the sports hockey, ask him questions. He will even be amused because you are paying interest on what he is talking about.

  1. Do not be nervous

Don’t worry too much on having a great date instead enjoy your date. If you feel nervous, you’re most likely to shake. It will be embarrassing if your date caught you holding a glass shaking. Don’t be over powered with his presence. Show him you can manage yourself well. Be confident. Look straight in his eyes when you answer his questions. Flash your best smile. Amuse him with your wits and looks. Guys love women who are empowered

Do not come in your worst appearance to the restaurant, make it a point to add on your best perfume

Hey, you are dating because you want to hook up with the right guy this time. So, you have to create a good impression. Don’t make your date run away from you because you look like you’ve come from another planet with your dress, haven’t taken a bath for days and smell like garbage. Wear a beautiful perfume for women. Be on your best attire. Look good and smell fresh. That way, you can captivate his attention the entire time you are together. And he’ll be proud of you as a date.

 

Milton Bates

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